How To Become the "Man She Wants"

This interactive guide will help you find the woman of your dreams by first becoming the man she wants.   

You will learn from my learning journey.  I was a nerd, not being able to talk to anyone, out of a bad relationship.  I had to learn from all these experts, unlearn from bad things other "experts" tried to teach me.  But I also learned from taking action, making mistakes, and reflecting on those mistakes.

You will see the best videos out there from experts in different areas, such as attraction, confidence, texting, dating, and sex.   You will have access to a trained GPT assistant to share your struggles and receive coaching to overcome them.  You will also have access to weekly individual or group calls to practice, be held accountable, and practice certain sticking points.  And you'll have access to a community of other men going through the same journey.  And you'll be able to do it all in your own language!

If you'd like to listen to the lessons in your own language, learn how here:  www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeS2zKSA6w4

What is this guide all about?
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Section 0: Lay the Foundations

You first need to understand about your goals, man to woman dynamics, and attractiveness.

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0.1.  What is Your Goal and Where are You in Your Course?

  • Why learn this?  I used to want a girlfriend, but I also wanted to have fun.  I wanted the hottest girl, but didn't have clarity other than that.  Those are examples.  We're all in different stages in our journey.  You have to know where you are first, to understand where you're going and have a little more clarity on your goals. 
  • Watch this video (or read its summary).
  • Take Action:  Make a list of what your ideal woman would be (her characteristics, not just her looks).  If you need guidance on it, use our custom GPT... click here to access it.
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Lay the Foundations!

You will benefit from a solid foundation of knowledge and understanding your situation!

  • Determine what your goal is and where are you in your course
  • Understand Man to Woman Dynamics
  • Understand What Makes You Attractive!
  • Understand how to become the Man She Wants to Attract the Woman You Want
  • Avoid common Mistakes So You Can Become the Man She Wants!
  • Put it All Together to Start or Advance on Your Course...
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Section 1:  From a "6" to a "10", Yourself First!

Work on your personal goals to become a better man.  And as you do that, you give yourself the boost of confidence and start getting yourself out there already!

Assess your Inner Game first!

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1.1.  This is What She Wants!

  • Why learn this?  I used to think I wasn't good looking enough, and was too focused on my career making money.  But only after I got into "game" I learned what "value" really is, and how to convey it to give honest attractive signals that go back to cavemen times!  There are things you can change in yourself, internally, that make you more attractive!
  • Watch these videos (or read their summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Go From a "6" to a "10"!

You will benefit from increasing your attractiveness level and confidence right away!

  • Understand what makes a man attractive and what can make you more attractive!
  • Know exactly what you need to do to improve and present yourself, inside and out!
  • Take some quick easy actions to immediately increase your attractiveness!
  • Put an action plan for those things that take longer!
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Section 2:  From Numbers to Dates, to More!

Most of Your Interactions Will End Up in Numbers first!  So focus on goin from numbers to great dates, and from great dates to sex!

Assess your Texting and Dates!

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2.1.  How to Text Her With The Date as The Goal!

  • Watch this video (or read its summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Start tracking your dates and interactions in this log to reflect on your wins and opportunities!

Track your progress, celebrate good habits, and identify repetitive sticking points!

Download this simple Excel template you can use the day after your dates, days out, or nights out.

Go From Numbers to Dates, to More!

You will immediately get success getting a girl out on a great date, so that you can get some successes and maybe more!

  • Know exactly how to text to get her out on a date!
  • Have the best first date Step-by-Step guide ever so that you don't leave out any of the critical things to include in it!
  • Have an arsenal of the best date conversation topics so that you build a fun, romantic and emotional connection!
  • Be able to kiss her on the date, every time, without making it awkward!
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Section 3:  Good Things Happen When You Get Out!

It's time to take action out there.  You need to understand a few basics, but if you don't take action, you won't improve!

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3.1.  Yes, You Can and Should Go Out Alone!

  • Why learn this? When I first moved to a new city I made the huge mistake to stay in because I didn't have friends to go out with.  You might be in a similar situation, whether due to a move, a breakup, or solely because your "friends" don't like to go out or are already coupled up.  But that's no excuse, and actually, going out alone is a beautiful thing!
  • Watch this video (or read its summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Get Out and Approach!  Good things will happen!

You will have the most liberating experience by developing your social skills, completely rid yourself of approach anxiety, and talk to multiple women you would have never met otherwise!

  • Lose the fear and mindset blockers preventing you from going out and approaching, even if you have to do it alone!
  • Learn why what happens before going out and when getting to the venue might make or break your day or night!
  • Talk to everyone so that you make some friends, wingmen, and maybe the woman of your dreams!
  • Rely on a proven basic structure to follow in your interactions to go from strangers to more than friends!
  • Know exactly what to say and do when you first talk to someone and be able to stay in the interaction!
  • Practice making mistakes so that you get better and learn from them!
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Section 4:   Set the Man to Woman Premise, Build Attraction, Hook Her!

So once you learn to stay in set, you have to set the man to woman premise, build her attraction for you, and hook her!  You don't want to be her friend.  These skills will help you establish the MTW frame and help you stay out of the friend zone.

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4.1.  Set the Man to Woman Frame and Show Her You're a Fun and High-Value Confident Male!

  • Watch these videos (or read their summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Set the Premise, Build Attraction, and Hook Her!

You will have interactions in which you lead it to become flirty, where she sees you as a potential boyfriend, where she's attracted to you, and at a point hooked on you!  At this point, she wants you!  No gimmicks, just your authentic you, with some help!

  • Talk and behave in the right way to make the interaction Man to Woman and show her you're a fun, high-value, confident male!
  • Don't get friend zoned!  Know exactly what to do and what to avoid to portray value, keep the conversation fun and flirty!
  • Be able to escalate the conversation and never let it wind down!
  • Be able to notice when she likes you, so that you can escalate more!
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Section 5:  Escalate, Connect, and Evaluate the Close!

She's interested in you as more than just a friend.  Now that she's hooked, you need to escalate and evaluate what your goal is with her!  You should keep escalating the interaction and decide if you'd like to take her home, get her number, or what...

Assess your Connection!

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5.1.  How To Flirt and Escalate The Conversation Into a Sexual and Emotional Connection

  • Watch these videos (or read their summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Escalate, Connect, and Evaluate the Close!

You will be able to escalate physically, emotionally, and sexually the interaction, while at the same time building connection and comfort, and be able to decide what to do next!

  • Know exactly how to touch her appropriately to keep escalating and gaging her interest!
  • Be able to flirt more and escalate the conversation into a sexual and emotional connection
  • Be able to decide, for each interaction, if you should go for the pull or get her number, and always be closing!
  • Be able to smoothly get her number in a way that guarantees she'll reply back and go on a date!
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Section 6:  From a Kiss to a Pull, to Sex!

Whether at The Venue or At Your Date, It's Time to Pull!  The same process applies and it starts earlier by trying to seed the reason for the pull, and then executing it even if it is (and it will be) bumpy and full of obstacles...

Assess your Pulling!

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6.1.  How to Take Her Home from a Date!

  • Watch this video (or read its summary).
  • Take Action:  Think about mistakes you've made in the past because you didn't know these things.  Then zone in on one mistake, and use our custom GPT to resolve it... click here to access it.
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Go from a Kiss to a Pull, to Sex!

You will be able to escalate logistically, physically, emotionally, and sexually the interaction, by being a respectful man who can manage any roadblocks that come between you and her being able to connect sexually!

  • Be able to take her home from a date, smoothly!
  • Be able to take her home from a venue, even if she's with her friends.
  • Get her comfortable at home and escalate smoothly from a kiss to more!
  • Know why and how to lead foreplay to build up the anticipation to sex!
  • Be able to pass her tests as you escalate to sex, portraying confidence and respect for her wellbeing.
  • Learn techniques you can try with different women to give her the best sex of her life!
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